HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK
Why would anyone want to get their ex back? Why would you want to take back someone who walked out on you? Why would you want to start a relationship that already ran it's course? Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? These are all legitimate questions that some people have about reconciliation, but not those who haven't brought themselves to let go. Whether you want them back because you love them or because you enjoy the straffing aspect or because her head game is strong asf or because his pocket knows no bounds, this article would help you get that.
RULE #1, NO CONTACT: The mistake of calling and texting an ex all the time is the story of 80% of the people who are desperate to get their exes back. It's a huge mistake to call your ex even once. Your instincts tell you that if you stay in contact with your ex, they will not forget you and hopefully come back. Your instincts also tell you that you're being mature about the break up, but it doesn't work that way. Any time you call or text or ex, you are showing them that you are needy and miserable without them. This neediness is unattractive and gives your ex a certain pride that pushes them further away. The no contact period should be as long as it takes you to get your life together and feel great about your life without your ex. They start to wonder why you've been distant and start to feel irrelevant. Then you have a 70% percent chance of being buzzed by your ex (only if you were in a "serious" relationship) . And if any of my ex is reading this and I haven't talked with you for a long time. It's not the "no contact rule", I just hate you.
RULE #2, NO BEGGING: If begging worked after a breakup, no one will break up with anybody. They decided to leave you and they are prepared to go. Whatever the reason for the breakup was, begging won't change sh*t. Begging would only make you look weak and like a fool. Similarly, your instincts will also make you believe that if you just show your ex that you can't do without them, they will take you back. Mbok!! Trust me, nobody takes their ex back out of pity. No one is attracted to a miserable person. Even if your ex comes back, do you really want them to be with you becaise of pity? Your instincts would tell you that if you agree to anything your ex wants, they will come back. Your instincts would tell you that the only thing that matters is to get your ex back and for that, you'll do anything. The truth is, they already know that you love, care and adore them, but they still decided to leave.
RULE #3, LET THEM GET A REBOUND AND SO SHOULD YOU: The thought of your ex being with someone else is like a pain in the skull. But in reality, it's not as bad as we make it out to be. The truth is, your ex is probably in a rebound relationship and almost all rebound relationships end sooner rather than later. If you and your ex where in a serious relationship, then they would not be able to move on so quickly. A rebound relationship is way for many people to deal with breakups, fortunatly for you, it's one of the most effective way to move on. The most important thing for you to do while your ex is in a rebound relationship is be cool about it. Whatever happens, never tell your ex to break up with their rebound partner. It is very unattractive and childish Get a rebound partner yourself and don't run it in your ex's face, keep it a secret. Let it be their idea that you are single. They have a huge hole in their life after breaking up with you which they are trying to fill with someone new. They would soon realise that a rebound relationship cannot fill the emptiness and end the relationship.
These few rules are only recommended if you were in a serious relationship. No be all these 3 days relationship wey una dey deceive una sef with these days .
Before you contact your ex, here is a checklist of things you need to make sure you've done.
*You have made a few positive changes in your life
*You are absolutely sure that getting back with you ex is a good decision
*You have gone on a date with someone else, at least once
*You have accepted the breakup and you're ok with the fact that you may never get your ex back and these rules might never work for you.
God Bless You.
Chopped & Screwed by :
NNABUCHI WISDOM
RULE #1, NO CONTACT: The mistake of calling and texting an ex all the time is the story of 80% of the people who are desperate to get their exes back. It's a huge mistake to call your ex even once. Your instincts tell you that if you stay in contact with your ex, they will not forget you and hopefully come back. Your instincts also tell you that you're being mature about the break up, but it doesn't work that way. Any time you call or text or ex, you are showing them that you are needy and miserable without them. This neediness is unattractive and gives your ex a certain pride that pushes them further away. The no contact period should be as long as it takes you to get your life together and feel great about your life without your ex. They start to wonder why you've been distant and start to feel irrelevant. Then you have a 70% percent chance of being buzzed by your ex (only if you were in a "serious" relationship) . And if any of my ex is reading this and I haven't talked with you for a long time. It's not the "no contact rule", I just hate you.
RULE #2, NO BEGGING: If begging worked after a breakup, no one will break up with anybody. They decided to leave you and they are prepared to go. Whatever the reason for the breakup was, begging won't change sh*t. Begging would only make you look weak and like a fool. Similarly, your instincts will also make you believe that if you just show your ex that you can't do without them, they will take you back. Mbok!! Trust me, nobody takes their ex back out of pity. No one is attracted to a miserable person. Even if your ex comes back, do you really want them to be with you becaise of pity? Your instincts would tell you that if you agree to anything your ex wants, they will come back. Your instincts would tell you that the only thing that matters is to get your ex back and for that, you'll do anything. The truth is, they already know that you love, care and adore them, but they still decided to leave.
RULE #3, LET THEM GET A REBOUND AND SO SHOULD YOU: The thought of your ex being with someone else is like a pain in the skull. But in reality, it's not as bad as we make it out to be. The truth is, your ex is probably in a rebound relationship and almost all rebound relationships end sooner rather than later. If you and your ex where in a serious relationship, then they would not be able to move on so quickly. A rebound relationship is way for many people to deal with breakups, fortunatly for you, it's one of the most effective way to move on. The most important thing for you to do while your ex is in a rebound relationship is be cool about it. Whatever happens, never tell your ex to break up with their rebound partner. It is very unattractive and childish Get a rebound partner yourself and don't run it in your ex's face, keep it a secret. Let it be their idea that you are single. They have a huge hole in their life after breaking up with you which they are trying to fill with someone new. They would soon realise that a rebound relationship cannot fill the emptiness and end the relationship.
These few rules are only recommended if you were in a serious relationship. No be all these 3 days relationship wey una dey deceive una sef with these days .
Before you contact your ex, here is a checklist of things you need to make sure you've done.
*You have made a few positive changes in your life
*You are absolutely sure that getting back with you ex is a good decision
*You have gone on a date with someone else, at least once
*You have accepted the breakup and you're ok with the fact that you may never get your ex back and these rules might never work for you.
God Bless You.
Chopped & Screwed by :
NNABUCHI WISDOM
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